After a Greek Orthodox Funeral: What You Need to Know About Cemetery Monuments

When burying a loved one who was of the Greek Orthodox faith, the standard rites are generally observed. There might be a wake, generally where the Trisagion will be recited for the first time to commemorate the deceased's journey to Heaven. The funeral service will take place at a Greek Orthodox Church or approved funeral home, usually with an open casket, and then it comes time for the burial. If the deceased had expressed an interest in having a cemetery monument at their grave, now is the time to begin discussing it amongst family and friends of the deceased.

The Timeframe for Construction

Because cemetery monuments are made to order and can be robust, often ornate pieces, it's difficult for them to be completed by the time of the burial. Depending on the type of monument desired and the workload of the monument mason, it could be a number of months before the finished product is ready to be installed. You should of course agree to the timeframe before committing to the monument, but remember that it doesn't need to be installed at the time of burial, and often cannot be.

Design Choices

This gives the family of the bereaved some time to come up with the most appropriate design. This will largely depend on your budget, along with deciding upon a style that best commemorates the deceased. You might wish to walk through the cemetery where your loved one is buried, as well as other cemeteries in your area where Greek Orthodox burials have taken place. This gives you an idea of the sizes and styles available, and can be an excellent starting point. If the deceased's spouse wishes to be buried alongside them at a later stage (and a dual burial plot has been purchased), remember that it can be less expensive to buy a larger monument for both, with the details of the spouse to be added when the time comes.

Extras

Once the approximate design has been decided upon, you will need to consider any extras that you think would have held importance to the deceased. They might have wished to have an inscription on their monument, and this text will need to be finalised. If it's a biblical quote in Greek, you must approve the wording and spelling before work commences. If Greek is not your first language, get a native speaker to approve the text. You don't want the deceased's monument to have grammatical errors. You might also like to include a photograph of the deceased, to be printed on a ceramic tile and added to the monument.

You might want to have a small, informal ceremony for family and close friends when the monument is installed, but this is entirely optional. What's important is that the deceased's final resting place now has a monument to commemorate their life and Greek Orthodox faith.

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The most surreal moment in my life was sitting across from a funeral director discussing my grandmother's funeral and burial. The director was asking questions that I either had no answer to or that I simply nodded my way through. It was the hardest and most surreal moment of my life, and afterwards I realised that these hard questions are the ones that need the most thought so our loved ones don't have to make these tough choices during a time of such grief. This blog is here to help others answer those questions, prepare for end of life choices, and pre-plan their funerals without the grief and panic that so many go through.

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